May 5, 2016 Domestic violence is a very complex problem. It is a working many departments and agencies difficult to address -This is ...
Domestic violence is a very complex problem. It is a working many departments and agencies difficult to address -This is a public health problem -. Like all other forms of violence - we see, especially lately, to contribute our murder rate. There is no story sadder than when an abused person is not doing his / her life abusive relationship. "Crimes of Passion", because so often we hear the police refer to these heinous crimes are not the first signs of domestic violence. In fact, there are signs and symptoms you. Into a potentially dangerous situation, which can be detected earlier much That's what we bring in a healthy warning tonight, the life of an abusive relationship, as explained by a professional with experience in mental health.
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If you see the global statistics on violence against women; They may or may not be surprised at how a common problem is. The WHO estimates that up to 38% of women of homicides are committed by an intimate partner. This is a murder of all three women worldwide.
Jenny Lovell, Mental Health Therapist
Jenny Lovell
"There are so many things that we can talk in terms of domestic violence, but I think we need to focus on early signs and symptoms of all, because in this country there are many women speak .." If ih without to knock; Ih want me not ", and that is a learned behavior."
As mental health therapist, Jenny Lovell, worked with women ways to find out a situation of domestic violence. She said there are warning signs in a relationship before it begins any physical abuse.
Jenny Lovell
"Do - do you think the number one flag or a sign that do not feel comfortable or anxiety in your relationship who is the number one sign that is a problem, and this person is not a child molester, an attacker on somewhere the line of two characters - relation -.?. has become number he is possessive, jealous or controlling and possessive, when I say he jealous of his family, including his colleagues and friends, it requires all your passwords, read your e - . mails or texts, you go home and look in her purse they work to isolate the family, friends, and then isolate work, yet the person wants to go to work. another thing is that it will be so nice to his friends will and against his family, everyone thinks that it is the soul of the party ... what a for a nice man, but once I looks in this house back as the other person. it's like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde , there are so many different behaviors, no one knows, and no one believes that this person could be taken or treat, as you try to tell people. Among them tell you the main, that if a man tells you he will kill You - even if you leave, or it will kill or kill their mothers and their sisters or kill all its inhabitants; believe in it and take it seriously, it must be taken very, very seriously, because I tell you later. "
What about the family? The Community? Can we help? According to Jenny, we must. Although we must not endanger us as we ask the tough questions and encourage victims to seek help.
Jenny Lovell
"I pay attention to these things, when friends and family suspect something to do. You really need to get this person and try to get a place where they can talk to someone. Do not ask" -What is your husband beaten? "I ask is" when the last time he was beaten up? "Asked -. I believe that has happened, if you are a member of the family again, I wonder - well, how many times you hit John, as the last time he was beaten up he takes them by surprise and you can immediately? see if there is something to do, what they have achieved check this time -. it everything you're doing can do to get the Ministry of Women, they get to speak some - there are some agents - because you really have to talk to someone to do that they start to convince yourself worthy and that their lives could be dependent on the amount at risk, that this person is. "
Victims of domestic violence need support and despite efforts at a time seems unnecessary to help. Lovell points out, it can once again help treat.
Jenny Lovell
"Make a report for crying out loud, and when you hear a battered woman, you do not stay at home and to ignore it and say, oh look good, how often I have you called the police, call the police just a back. It is very important that we operate. These things end in death. "